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Thursday, July 01, 2010

What Not to Say About Someone's Appearance

Don’t say: “You look tired.”
Why: It implies she doesn’t look good.
Instead say: “Is everything OK?” We often blurt the “tired” comment when we get the sense that the other person feels out of sorts. So just ask.

Don’t say: “Wow, you’ve lost a ton of weight!”
Why: To a newly trim person, it might give the impression that she used to look unattractive.
Instead say: “You look fantastic.” And leave it at that. If you’re curious about how she got so svelte, add, “What’s your secret?”

Don’t say: “You look good for your age.”
Why: Anything with a caveat like this is rude. It's saying, "You look great―compared with other old people. It's amazing you have all your own teeth."
Instead say: “You look great.”

Don’t say: “I could never wear that.”
Why: It can be misunderstood as a criticism. (“I could never wear that because it’s so ugly.”)
Instead say: “You look so good in skinny jeans.” If you slip, say something like “I could never wear that…because I wasn’t blessed with your long legs.”

Monday, June 28, 2010

Just one more night. That's all it takes for me to fall in love all over again.

For the first time that we are together, I went merajuk and didn't talk to him the whole day. I went out in the morning, and only came back home at night.

That night he had to go back to JB. I pretended like I didn't care.

He went off without saying goodbye.

"This is not right. This shouldn't have happened."
I want to make things right. I wished he had stayed just another night.

I cried thinking that I have done him wrong. I cried hoping that he would come back to me. Just one more night. And like a wish comes true,the next thing I knew, he was next to me in our bed.

That night, sayang, for you to do what you did last night. That's all it takes for me to fall in love all over again.

Friday, June 25, 2010

Pink - I've Got Money Now

Dear Pink,

I've got money now. And I still need love too.

Soon you'll realize that money ain't everything, honey.
Wake up and smell the coffee.


It has been about 3 years since I last wrote here.

Now I have archived the old memories, and ON with new ones.
I won't stop talking bout people, or my views as a matter of fact. If you can't take the heat, stay out of the sun.